January 4th, 2010

I buried my Grandpa today.

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Grandpa Gipson and me

Despite the title, I’m not fishing for sympathy. It was a tough day for many reasons so I just thought I’d share a nice memory about him.

When I was a little kid, he came to live with our family in Glendale for a short while. With a plan to stay for a few months, he parked his tiny trailer in our back yard. (Very cool.)

One afternoon, I was in my room practicing my sax. He knocked on the door and asked to sit in. As a shy kid, my music was usually a very private thing.

But I couldn’t say no.

He sat next to me and tapped his foot to the jazzy standards I was noodling around with. I played my goofy amateur heart out. I faked a little here and there, but I did it with conviction. He loved it.

As an adult, I don’t “blow the notes” frequently enough and I regret not playing for him since those early years. He often asked, “When are you gonna bring your sax and play for me again?”

The Lesson: Never stop playing.

Ever.

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  • pavlemilic

    I always say life is too short and it really is about the here and now…didn't know you play the sax…I love the picture of the both of you!
    Hannah's instrument is also the sax!
    You are lucky to have shared that moment with him!

  • http://customersystemsinc.com Chris Lee

    Sorry to hear that brother. Good post. It is way too easy to get caught in the rat race & forget what it's all about. Hope you're doing ok.

  • http://eatingslow.blogspot.com/ natalie

    Sorry, Ty for your loss but that's a pretty cool story. Those are what you gotta remember. I am at the same point in my life too with my grandma. We'll get through this together. Let me know if you need a shoulder or even a cocktail… :)

  • Jen

    Thank you for sharing and I'm so sorry for your loss (even though you're not “fishing” for this ;) ).
    There's something about grandfathers and I certainly miss mine. Thanks for the reminder about not ever letting go of what you're passionate about. I think I'm getting back there :)
    Let's catch up soon!

  • juxtapalate

    Thank you for the kind word brotha. Every minute counts!

  • juxtapalate

    Cocktail condolences… only on this blog! Thanks Natalie :)

  • juxtapalate

    Sounds like we need a Hannah & Ty jam session. Yikes!

  • http://twitter.com/ciaomari Mari Markogianis

    You were the cutest child in the history of the entire world. Grandparents are the best, I was blessed to live with mine right upstairs until I was 19. God bless Grandpa Harold, may he rest in peace. xoxoxo

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